Are You a Jane?

Jane shows up late at every appointment. Regardless of who she work with or what she works on, it seems that she makes a conscious effort to be late. But she is not all bad. Sometimes when she would be more than 10 minutes late, she would call ahead to inform her colleagues.

Jane has developed a reputation among the people she works with as “the one who is always late.” In addition to being late, Jane is not the best at the work she does. She is just average and even though she does her best, it just does not do it for the people she works with.

What are you know as by people who work with you? Are you “the one who always shows up ahead of time,” or are you a Jane?

“The will to win, the desire to succeed, the urge to reach your full potential… these are the keys that will unlock the door to personal excellence.” Confucius

Are You Trainable?

If you have ever hired anyone or being part of a hiring panel, you know that one of the most important elements that determines whether someone is picked over another is trainability.

Beyond the appropriate skills and knowledge for the job at hand someone has at any point in time, trainability is what employers want above anything else. Being flexible, being able to adapt, being able to learn challenging concepts while keeping a positive attitude, are invaluable skills.

More than 10 years ago I attended a resume building workshop and the lead trainer who was an HR Director for a medium sized business said: “We always hire for attitude and fire for inaptitude.” What he was effectively saying was that it is easy to get hired if you have a positive and enthusiastic attitude, but over time, your ability to adapt, learn and grow is what is going to determine whether you stay, and how high you rise.

Compassion and Love

In this contemporary society where things tend to revolve more and more around materials resources, it is easy to be self-centered and egotistical. I am reminded of the buddha who said: “Embrace everything, be attached to nothing.” He didn’t say it exactly like that, but I am sure that’s exactly what he meant.

Frustration is caused by not embracing everything that happens (that we create). Attachment is caused by habits that depend on external factors to be executed. 

Compassion, concern and sympathy for the suffering of others, and love, an intense feeling of deep affection are the greatest forces in the universe. To quote Emmet Fox: 

There is no difficulty that enough love will not conquer: no disease that love will not heal: no door that enough love will not open…It makes no difference how deep set the trouble: how hopeless the outlook: how muddled the tangle: how great the mistake. A sufficient realization of love will dissolve it all. If only you could love enough you would be the happiest and most powerful being in the world.

Let’s all strive to always be compassionate and loving.

Why I Quit Social Media

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As of August 2018, I’ve successfully deactivated all my social media accounts except for LinkedIn. Here are 3 reasons why I quit social media:

  • Privacy Issues

With all the privacy scandals that have surrounded Facebook (the biggest social media network) these days, leaving Facebook/Social Media was trending. I considered and decided to jump on the bandwagon when I realized that a lot of my privacy settings were too open.

  • Addictions

Social media can be addictive. I noticed that I was spending too much time on Instagram and Facebook. Too much time is a few hours a day for me. For others who are truly addicted, an hour without their smartphones scrolling on a social media site is almost impossible, unless they are asleep. Instagram was taking way more of my time than I care to admit, and it was becoming a tool for distraction, rather than for productivity.

  • (Re)Focus on Self-Development

I have a collection of more than 300 books in my personal library, and it has been more than 3 months since I read a book cover to cover. That’s not good. Phones are designed to be addictive and my self-development has been suffering because of all the time I have been spending on social media. Less/No social media time = more  time for focusing on developing myself.

The only social media platform I will keep using is Quora because I find that answers on the platform are generally of good quality.

Hasta la vista social media!

Speak To Win Business Conference 2018

The Speak to Win Business Conference provides entrepreneurs, business owners and working professionals in the OC and LA areas with practical and proven communication tools and strategies they can use to win more clients grow their businesses, and maximize profits. This is the 4th edition.

Speakers:
Lionnel Yamentou – Conference Host, Author, Speaker

Lance Miller – World Champion of Public Speaking
Cindy Carpenter – Top 10 World Champion Speaker
Kevin Graham – Sales Professional, Author, Speaker
Daniel Midson-Short – Speaker & Writer
Suraj Chugani – Sales Professional, Speaker
Michael Maitre – Certified Life Coach, Author, Speaker

For agenda, topics covered and other information, visit our full event website at:
www.speaktowinconference.com

Date: Saturday, June 30th, 2018.
Time: 8am to 4pm

Venue:
National University
3390 Harbor Boulevard
Costa Mesa, CA 92626-1502

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